Breastfeeding

I'm still trying to decide if I need to put a disclaimer or something on this post. It tends to be a touchy subject.

A few days ago, I was on a parenting forum and someone posted a link to an anti-breastfeeding blog. (And no, I will not be posting the link, because quite frankly, I do not want to spread the disgusting message that it spreads.) It peaked my interest so I went to read it. What I initial thought was a joke and kind of laughed off at first soon turned to utter frustration and, I'll admit, rage. It makes claims that breastfeeding is somehow incestuous and abusive, among other things. Now, this blog (and campaign) supposedly was created basically to piss people off and get media attention, which it did. But the sad part about it is that there are a lot of people that believe some of the claims it makes. I, of course, believe that it is a woman's choice whether she chooses to breastfeed her child or not, and I am very aware that some people, no matter how much they want to, just cannot. That is all irrelevant to this post. What I am annoyed about it that so many mothers especially the young mothers do not take the time or initiative to educate themselves and make an informed decision. It is so frustrating to see the lack of support for the woman that choose to. I, myself, have gotten many stares, and rude looks while nursing, but I guess I am too stubborn to let it bother me. I'm not even sure why I chose this path. I do not remember seeing anyone nurse their child while I was growing up, nor do I remember ever being told about it. I just knew that I wanted to do whatever it was that was best for my child and "breast is best" even the formula companies agree with that. I am also very surprised that my parents generation tends to be so pro-formula. I just do not understand how something that my body makes specifically to cater to the needs to the infant that it grew, could some how be inferior to a man-made substance that has to be fortified with vitamins and that although there are many varieties, many babies cannot tolerate most of them.  I have heard from many girls that wanted to breastfeed their child but didn't because they had no support from anyone; not her parents, grandparents, or spouse. I just hope that generations to come will see the value in it, and at least make informed decisions. My children will be very informed on it and my hope it that they girls will both grow up to breastfeed and that D will encourage his future wife to do so. They will know that formula is an option if necessary, but they will know the benefits of breastfeeding both for the mom and the baby. OK rant over! :)